Love is not gone, it has changed.

Hi All,

Many people that have divorced or their relationship has been broken apart, often say that the reason for that was that the love has disappeared.

Than I began to wonder, how something so powerful, that bought these two strangers together can just be gone. I never had an answer for that until I've realized something from my own marriage.

We all have to accept one thing in life, we are all going change throughout our lifetime. Now, change isn't an easy thing. Some people adapt very well, some don't. You see my friend, God throws different situations at us to shape us for a purpose that He has designed for us. Some people change for the good and some for bad, and that is all from the choices that they make in their lives.

Now when your in the process of changing, you flesh becomes weaker and it is a perfect opportunity for the devil to step in and so do some damage

Do you see my friend, just how important is faith in our Lord?

The devil will do it's utmost best to make you believe that the strong love between you and your partner is gone. In the meantime, it is still there. It is busy changing with you. The devil will blind you and tell you that love is no longer there by tempting you with lies, lust and pornography and so on.

Unfortunately our flesh isn't strong enough to fight the devil, so I'm going to ask you this again.

Do you see my friend how important is our faith in our mighty Lord? 
He is our only Savior, the only who can save us from the hands of the devil. The devil will use any weak point in your life, put a small wedge and slowly it will destroy it.

So before you say love is gone, ask god to help you revive the love that once was burning bright.

I had these doubts in my head once before. Doubts of, is our love gone? Are we just living together and past each other? That is when I got down on my knees and begged God to help me. To save me from the thoughts. And so I prayed, and i prayed and I prayed. I refused to give up. I refuse to allow the devil to take over my life and my marriage.

Than I slowly started to see God's work in my life. He showed me that the love is still there. Its burning very dim, but it's there. follow me and I will help you brighten it up.
Every situation in your life will change you , it will mold you. You need to accept it my friend, the sooner you do that. The sooner your love with your partner will adapt with it. But if you will keep on living in the past, you will feel like that love is gone.

I feel like I have fallen in love with my husband all over again. And I give all my thanks to God. I have accepted myself and him for who we have become. I love him for who he is now and for who he was or for who I want him to be.

So my friend never give up on love, No matter how dim it is shining. Fight for it! Beg God to help you. He is the only one who can help you through it.

I really hope that I have managed to express myself correctly. Sometimes it's not easy to find the right words to explain how you feel. My wish is that this story will touch many people, men and woman. And that it will revive that dim light or even save a marriage.

Dear Lord,
Thank you for being my Savior. I have learnt that without you it is just not possible. I pray that those who are lost and weary will turn to you for help. Help them Lord to ignite the flame that once was burning so bright.
In Jesus name, I pray. Amen